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New Podcast at Power In Practice

For anyone who likes to listen to the podcasts I do or help with, the newest episode is up over at Power In Practice. It’s not for the light of heart and it is not work safe. The podcast is Episode 10: Rape Play w Tatsumi. Enjoy!


Keeping a Positive Attitude while you Serve

For anyone who serves, you know that there are times when you will not like what you are being asked to do. From either a kink view point or a mundane life service view point you will have to master the art of getting things done with a pleasant attitude. This can be one of [...]


How to Hack your Boss (Dom/me)

A lot of submissives who serve their Dom’s know that sometimes it can be very much like a job. It’s often easier to look at your Dominant as a Boss and see if you can use that analogy to work for you.
This article is VERY helpful and will likely prove to be a big life [...]


Episode 1 Welcome to Power Play

As I might have mentioned I intend to add a podcast to this site. The name of the podcast is Sex and Power Play, or Power Play for short. The following is the first Episode and more are scheduled to come. Episode 2 is an interview with Alluring Alexis from NiteFlirt. (,link to come soon)
Episode [...]


A good place to start

As I mentioned yesterday, I want to use this site to post some relevant articles that I think will help anyone who finds service submissive or improving themselves for themselves or others useful.
I read several good lifehack sites and have been saving good articles for a while. I think many people will find them useful…boys [...]


Finally, an update

I know it’s been a while since I posted. Most of you who know me, know that I’m a busy girl and sometimes the other things in my life take priority over this. I also was having issues with the WordPress admin section but as you can see that’s fixed now.
So here’s what [...]


Catch up

Did you all miss me? *smirk* I did see some of you came back to view the site or were new for the first time between my trip to Floating World and DragonCon. I had a blast at both! Shame none of you bothered to try and make it better for me.
Floating World was fun. [...]


Ok so I care…a little :P

If you’ve been here before…you’ll notice the site looks a tad different. I’m really loving it! The power red is definitely doing it’s thang!
I’ve fixed up the wish list page a bit. Given a bit more personality to some of my links. I have a few more pages in mind but I think I’m done [...]


How much do I care?

I keep trying to decide exactly how much time and effort I want to waste…again…on this site and the losers who come here. Some of them make it worth it…but sometimes it’s so much work I wonder if I really care. This shouldn’t be about work damnit! This should be about pleasing me and making [...]


I want!!

So I went into the city yesterday for a movie and some shopping and I saw the most beautiful corset I’ve seen in a long time. I’m not normally a corset kinda girl but this purple and gold halter corset I saw at Purple Passion was just amazing! I want it so bad I can [...]